Do you lose your individuality as part of a relationship?
3 min readOct 9, 2023
What does commitment do to your sense of self?
The longer I’m single, the more I reevaluate my relationship to dating. Pre-spinsterhood, I wanted my identity to be “part of a couple.” And now? There’s a part of me that feels like becoming half of a relationship would mean giving up a part of my soul. But is there anything to this train of thought? Or am I rejecting…